Wisdom for Women!


Hello ladies,

I’m assuming you are a lady reading this *winks*

I got this very wise email from a woman I respect so much and I thought I should share it…

Beauty attracts men, but wisdom keeps them.
Elegance catches men’s attention, but intelligence convinces them.
Nagging irritates men, but ‘constructive silence weakens men.
The boy in every man pumps out occasionally, your ability to handle this, is a woman’s truest maturity.
Men have secret struggles and silent pains, should you ever find them out, exhibit the greatest maturiy .
ln the long-run your ‘words’ matters more to a man than your ‘looks’, so invest the right words.
Earn a man’s respect and he will consider you the yard stick for all his action.
Learn to mold the moods of your man. Men will naturally give you their futures,
if they can recall your maturity in yesterday’s issues.
Women are every where, but queens are scarce.
Let the queen in you come alive and he will hold you in high esteem.

Toyin Akinpelu

Very true! Ain’t it?

Two things you should never do about love…

Just two things on my mind I need to voice out…

 To y’all  guys out there:

“when you love a lady, and you KNOW it is love, don’t be heavy-mouthed or hesitant! Just walk up to her and TELL her! She ain’t gonna be there forever!”


To y’all ladies:

“when you find love, and you KNOW it is love, never let it go ‘cos that’s silly!”


*clears throat*

I ain’t saying more than that!

Full stop!


Make or Mar: The power of the Tongue…

The power of the Tongue…

We have heard it over and over again that there is power in the tongue. But hey! the thing is, we hear so many things and even chant them, but how much of it do we actually internalize, how much of it do we understand? How much of the great things we hear do we actually make our guiding principles?

Your tongue and the words you speak are so powerful and highly effective – positively and negatively. See your words as seeds planted in the heart of those who hear it. Every day we communicate with people (in written or spoken words), we plant seeds that will definitely grow… seeds that will make or mar!

What seeds have you planted today?

I know it is generally believed that women speak three times more than men (I wonder how true that is…), so ladies please take special note of the seeds you sow! *winks*

Learn to add value with the words you speak. If you must say something, think before you open your mouth. And hey! who says you must say something anyway?

You might as well do this…

Seal your lips!



Challenge yourself!

Wow! I am actually doing this…

Welcome to!

This is my very first post and I am so excited about it. My reasons? There are a whole lot of things on my inside, crying out for expression and all I have done about it before now is – Nothing! I am challenging myself, and at the same time calling out to as many as have dragged their feet about one thing or the other that needs to be done, but you just keep postponing…

Get up and just do it!

The posts you will read here are going to be real, thought-provoking and straight from the heart. At the same time I am not going to be “all work and no play”; it’s going to be a good mix of the fun stuff and the serious stuff. There will be posts from guest authors some of the time, but it will be basically life-enriching and of immense value. So, be on the watch out; you will be glad you stumbled on this!

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